When people speak of complimenting something, you usually think of making positive comments towards a person's attire. They also refer to how angles compliment to equal 90 or 180 degrees. I'm referring to compliments in terms of relationships. For two people to compliment each other, the two much understand and accept one another mentally and physically. To understand a person mentally, you must be able to look past the other person's flaws. Not only to look past them, but to accept them for who they are. To understand a person physically, your goal is to not to try to change a person, but to help them change themselves. We all have made the mistake of trying to convert people to our wants and needs, and not accepting the person for who they were. Unfortunately, there are somethings to watch out for. These things are susceptible to change because there are components to a relationship that can alter most of these.
- Someone who you can understand when you first meet them might not be the same person in 3-6 months.
- The heart of a person is impressionable, regardless of what they say. It depends on what impression lasts...
- Compromise is the life force of all relationships. Without it, everything will soon fall apart, whether it be friendship or a marriage.
- Trust is a mindset that can't work without Compromise. trust cannot stand on it's own. To truly trust someone, regardless of circumstance, is to understand them and the ability to compromise.
- You can't forcibly adjust someone's communication patterns, unless they are open to said change.
When things fall apart, heartache is like the mushroom cloud that you see in movies after a huge bomb explodes, because the actual breakup is the actual bomb. Most people attribute the breakup to sex, cheating, and a multitude of other reasons, but I believe that the underlying reason is a loss of compromise and understanding. Once these two pillars fall, the relationship will cave in on itself unless something is done. Happiness will cease unless the two can still compliment one another.
Find your compliment..........
