Routine and Redundancy

Why is it that everyone looks for a way from the mundaneness of existence when life has to be routine? There are certain things that are routine, such as work and school, but I think that it's when we as a people start looking for something that isn't routine is when we get into trouble. When husbands/boyfriends/wives/girlfriends look for something out-of-routine so to speak, that's when problems usually arise. How can we solve this on an individual level? I think that we need to find a way to make the redundancy enjoyable. We are all born with an imagination and a conscience. The question is what's the balance that the two share in a person's mind, whether male or female. If your imagination takes precedence, then the problems will show up sooner than later and more frequent. If your takes precedence, then the problems will come later, but in a much different way. That's how I'm looking at it.

Woman's conscience v.s. man's imagination: when she doesn't budge, it leads to problems because she's pushing him away and he's tired of trying.

For some reason, there are some people, whether men or women, that can bend or compromise more than others.

Are we afraid of routine? Does redundancy scare us more than death???

A Knight in Disguise