Screwed any way you go....

I'm talking to  friend of mine online, and she said that her and her friend are freaked out about my knowledge of things in the life of a female. I mean, come on!!! Experience is gained through two avenues: first-hand or through the passing of knowledge in conversation. I get all my knowledge through convos that I have with my other female friends. I really don't sit there and purposefully piss women off. Maybe I might be too in tune with my "feminine" side, but I never thought it would be a problem, but it OBVIOUSLY is... I don't know......

I had a dream...

I had a dream....that love isn't completely something that you have to chase and embarrass yourself for, but it is something given to you by God for you to maintain.

I had a dream.... that affection is only a tumbler in the lock that can constitute happiness in every situation.

I had a dream.... that trust isn't only earned, it is also given freely due to unconditional love.... don't take my word for it... Ask God...

I had a dream.... that friendship, in the true sense of the word, will keep you alive, regardless of your mental, physical, or emotional state.

I had a dream.... that I will stay alive long enough to find my love, affection, and happiness. 

Will my dream come true?

Not Real

Have you ever watched a person laugh and wondered if the laugh was real? Have you ever felt that your expressions, responses, and gestures weren't real?
The look in your eyes........ Not real
A frown in disguise............ Not real
A heated discussion, a joke, a snicker, laugh, cackle, all not real. Why?

Cuz we're all used to being fake..............

Can you follow God and be lazy?

Can a dog chase a ball while sitting down? Will a marathon be raced when everyone is at home? Can you make it to Heaven without trying? I feel a little stupid writing this because now I see that I'm caught up in it. I am a lazy Christian, which I now see to be an oxymoron. something that can't exist.... Something wrong, morally and spiritually. How can a man be a man when he isn't doing anything for himself or the family he wants to have? The wife he wants to marry or has already married? How can a woman be a woman when she isn't supporting herself, her husband, or her family? How can children be a product of their parents when they aren't in school doing right? How can we as a people following Christ not do what we were called to do, not for eternal life, but for our neighbors and friends?

I honestly don't know, but 2010 will give me the answer....

Reflective Knight

I don't have the time....

I was speaking to an old friend of mine and catching up. The thought processes led me to this:

I don't have the time....

I don't have the time to baby a person who doesn't want anything in life
that sits home wasting and claiming that they are the best
you sitting at home watching TV, not cleaning, playing games, eating food
nothing constructive. I don't have the time to raise a family and you together
one has got to go.

Reflective Knight

High Maintenance.... Is it worth it?

Is it worth it? Is it worth it to spend hundreds of dollars on clothes, shoes, bags, sneakers, fitted caps, etc? Is it worth it do live your life validated by the clothes you wear, the hairstyle you have, and the phone you carry? Is it worth it to judge a person only by their paycheck and not by their personality as well? 

I'm just asking the questions......

                   You answer them............